How to deal with ex and his new gf?

You have to see your ex all the time with his new gf? The ex has probably said all kinds of things about you to his new gf (and of course, he hasn't mentioned the horrible crap that HE has done; that wouldn't be convenient for him), a lot of it probably exaggerations and maybe even lies. Now this girl has a preconceived notion of you, that could be quite contrary to the truth. Also, you still have feelings for your ex, and you feel that his new gf is somewhat superior to you in terms of looks, smarts, and sweetness.





You will come across these two VERY, very often.





How would you deal?How to deal with ex and his new gf?
get over him...why you care about them turds anyway??? 1. DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF! Believe that you can get over this person.


2. Get rid of everything that reminds you of this person pictures, gifts, phone number etc.


3. Think to yourself. Was this person even treating me right? Did he/she make me cry or laugh more? Take some time and think things over.


4. HAVE FUN! Go out with friends, go bowling, to a movie, ice skating, or even go on a vacation. Anything to take your mind off of your ex.


5. If you don't want to spend money on a vacation, try to cook. Exercise also helps.


6. Don't talk to the same friends that know him/her.


7. Even though they don't always help, talk to your family. They are always there for you and they can definitely keep your mind off of things!


8. Even if you and your ex agreed to be friends, cut off contact with this person for awhile. Make sure that when you talk to them again you don't have any leftover feelings. Find closure. You don't necessarily need a new partner, but make sure you are 100% over your ex before seeking friendship.


* Turn your phone off while you are having fun with friends or family. It could distract you.


* Don't be afraid to see other people but don't try to get a new boyfriend/girlfriend too soon. Allow yourself time to heal and time to have fun with friends and be single.


* Try to think positive. Things happen for a reason.


* You aren't going to stay unhappy forever. You might as well just start getting happy now!


* Make sure you don't just act like you like another person to make your ex jealous. That never works and you're just wasting your time. This could also hurt the person you are using.


* Don't beg for you ex back. It makes you look pathetic.


* In regards to step 4: do not take your friends to a place where you and your ex went out on a date.


* Just because you're mad at your ex doesn't mean you need to get even. Let it go. It is much easier and smarter in long run.


* Ignore all the rumors and things that might be going around about you and your ex. They aren't worth your time.


* It might help to write a list of all the bad things about him/her. But if you choose to do this, keep it to yourself and do not show anyone. It will just hurt you in the long run.How to deal with ex and his new gf?
With dignity...





Whatever he told her will come out sooner or later and in time she will be in the same position as you are now and he will be telling things about her to his next girlfriend...





You are the lucky one here - you know the truth For her however it will come as a shock...





And if she is really as smart as you think she will see the truth... Preconcived notions don't last People tend to make up their own minds about anything...





So all I can tell you your self esteem is your best weapon... So you might still have feelings for him but trust me if he tells things about you to his GF he is not such a good person... You deserve better... Laugh it out...





And when you will meet someone better you will remember this very situation and it will make you apreciate that person more...





Good luck I wish you to meet a really special guy that will make you happy...