Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you deal with an ex-girlfriend that keeps calling and texting? Men and women please help!?

Here's the thing, I have broken up with her in the past and because of physical reasons got back with her ;-) Now part of my resolution this year is to get rid of her and turn my life around. My life has been nothing but h**l since I meet her. Oh and the time line has been a little over a year since we meet. I have been trying to just ignore the phone calls but I want them to stop all together.How do you deal with an ex-girlfriend that keeps calling and texting? Men and women please help!?
The calling/texting will eventually end. I had an ex that apparently decided she missed me (yes she dumped me after 2yrs together). For most of the last 2 yrs, she has made numerous calls/texts/emails to me. I didn't need or want her in my life at any level. She was far too difficult. I never answered her calls, opened her emails, or read her messages. Thus, I never responded. She made crappy choices, but I didn't owe her anything else of me. For many months, I wanted the calls, etc, to stop, too. I just learned to ignore them (and her), and now it has tapered off dramatically. Keep in mind, she was extremely needy of attention; I don't think most sensible girls would go that far.How do you deal with an ex-girlfriend that keeps calling and texting? Men and women please help!?
just call her and tell her that you would appreciate it if she would leave you alone that you have no feelings left for her and you are intending on starting this year without having her in it! then I would change my ph # cause you know she will keep calling.........
Tell her if she doesn't quit calling and texting you are gonna press harrassment charges..LOL put the scare in her...lmao
change your number and be courteous when you see her irl, but just stay away.
change ur #, get one of ur female friends to answer n tell her that you got a new girl, block her #, tell her to leave u alone, call her all the horrible named u can think of and maybe that will make he realize u dont want her
change your number
firstly id like to say that its LAME to just be with a girl for physical reasons. thats really low.





but as far as your problem, explain to her that you're over. you dont have feelings for her anymore. and she needs to back off.
What the hell are you doing dating my girlfriend?
BE HARSH..!!





Just tell her you don't like her anymore and to move on. Ignore her calls and if she persists pick it up and be mean. i.e. tell her why she is your EX.
Answer the phone and do her one more time. Then change your number.
Change you number. I know it's a pain to do that. but sounds like it would be worth it. Some people don't get hints. Tell this


girl straight out, that is if you haven't already.


Good luck
I think the calls will only stop once you start to ignore her. Right now you are making her call by keeping in contact with her. stop answering her calls or texts and she will stop the calls. trust me on this one , it will take time but the calls will stop. she still thinks you are interested every time you pick up the phone and talk to her, so when you stop talking to her she will think you are no longer interested and she will give up annd move on to the next guy. good luck.
there is a way to block her calls and texts. just come out and in a respectful way tell her it needs to stop before you take further actions. put a little scare into her and tell her that if she doesnt stop the calling and texting that you will file for harassment. sometimes it takes a good boot in the ***.
just block her number.. call ur phone company and tell them you want that number blocked... and she'll get the message :) good luck
Block that phone number.. and no, don't kill her!
hi there.. well its hard for that to happen as quickly as you want it to be.. patience is always a virtue, i had a similar situation a couple of years back. just ignore him :)
just dont anwser her never make a girl anwser for u and she will be all **** it drink liquor and get **** up and kill her lol
tell her ITS FRIGGIN OVER, GET A LIFE YOU ****** UP PSYCHO
Tell her that you want nothing else to do with her and you want her out of your life. Give her the chance to leave you alone before you have to change your number. If she still continues to call, then you will need to change your number. If she shows up at your door, file harassment charges.
Tell her u have another girl in your life.
Ignore her... if that fails, change your number and flatly tell her that this is the last time you will say it: I am finished with this relationship. I have resolved to move on and turn my life around. Please leave me alone or I will report you to the police and get a TRO against you. Hang up, walk away, run, whatever, but do NO acknowledge her again.
stop boinking her and maybe she will stop calling you asshat
Be honest with her. Tell her exactly how you feel. If she doesn't back off after you tell her to, tell her that you will be blocking her number. You have to do whatever it takes so you can move on!
first of alll y r u making a resoulution of trying to get rid of ur girlfriend?? if u really dont like her then u should tell her howw u feel n that u dont want to hurt her when u dont love her. i think ur life is like hell ever since u met her because u making it like that not in a mean way but if u loved her in the first place and thought she was the right one for you then you should of thought how bringing her in your life would effect you mentally and physically.......and if u were in a relationship with her and it was a little over a year and you broke up 3 or less times then i think u do love her but u just need a little time and u just need a break and tell her u need a break and dat u still love her but once ur with a person for too long espically when ur a teenager u need a break to catch up with life....
tell her straight out that you can't stand her guts.





and then if she keeps calling, change your number.


its kind of easy to get rid of someone.
DON'T RESPOND! don't text her back telling her to quit


don't answer only to tell her not to call - IGNORE! IGNORE IGNORE!!!!!! If all else fails threaten her with a restraining order - that will help you keep your resolution too!
Block their number. OR kill the *****. Or both.
get a restraining order
Get your number changed cause it seems she's not getting the message.
Call your provider and see if there is a way to block the number. That way she can't bug you. If I really wanted her to leave me alone, I would tell her and tell her with conviction, you have to believe it also in order for her to. If it keeps up you really are dealing with harassment. It's in your hands. Ignore it and hope it goes away or deal with it in a real and upfront way that leaves her no room for encouragement. Good luck. Miss Mary
Just tell her in the nicest possible way that you are not interested in talking to her and if that don't work then change you digits or block her calls.. But you can't be getting physical with her anymore you know!

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