How do i deal with an ex girlfriend who tells all my friends that im an assh*ole?

we havent been going out for like 2 years now but my buddy told me he saw her and my bros ex girl at the bar and all they did was talk **** about how im this and that, a liar, psycho, and im an alcoholic like my mom and will never change...Whats the best way to deal with it. I look like a jerk if i say anything, but now she tells other girls not to get with me also...tough!!How do i deal with an ex girlfriend who tells all my friends that im an assh*ole?
don't deal with her and move on.How do i deal with an ex girlfriend who tells all my friends that im an assh*ole?
Why does it matter? If it's not true, then that's her problem, not yours. You should be happy you're not with her anymore. She's obviously got some problems, mainly living in the past.





If I were you, I wouldn't give any of it any response at all. If a friend tells you some things she's been saying, simply don't care. It's not important. Why make it important? She's a psycho. So what? You're not with her anymore. Again, be happy that's the case. God is looking over you. He didn't want you to be with a nutcase. Lucky you.






She's still agonizing over you after 2 years apart???!!! The people that already know you aren't going to change their minds about you because of something she says so don't sweat that. And new women who may hear her rant are going to want to meet this guy who has such a hold on her that she's still obsessed after 2 years, they're going to want to ';test drive'; you to see if you really are all those things she said. Girls like ';bad'; boys so she's sort of building up your reputation. If anyone asks you if what she says is true, just shrug it off (being real cool) and say ';is she still mad 'cause I dumped her?';
Your buddy might be lying to you, has that occurred to you. Hopefully he is not and if that is the case ask your girlfriend to stop spreading defamatory story's about you and if she does not stop you will lay a charge against her. Leave it at that and see what happens.
its not your fault i broke up with my ex 2 years ago we decided separate ways was best we've talked since and then we had an argument i love him heaps still which may be why she is doing it i done the same thing cos he was with everyone else but me so i told every1 he was nasty and i should not of she may still love you ask your self if you still love her
my ex have the same problem.. all his ex's tell everyone that he's an A$$holes.. and i'm the only one that talk to him nicely.idk but he still manage to get other girls.. Just don't date girls that are friends with your ex.. Date girls from far away.. like from a different neighborhood or school or something..
ur a man , act like one . brush it off and move on . or u can climb into the sandbox with ur ex . where u kids can throw sand back and forth , till u both look stupid . and hey if the things she said are true get some help . but otherwise suck it up bro . don't act like a ***** . it sounds like ur ex has that department covered .


no worries bro
shes obviously still holds what happened with you two against you, i would just ignore it if i was you, if someone asks you about it, tell the truth, dont let her ruin things for you just cause shes still jealous and holding a grudge :)
punch her homie :)


square in the face. break her front teeth. then kick her a few times and ask her if she has changed her mind.... im jus playn. u cant. woman are very complicating. just becareful wut u do. now days woman can say anything is sexual harrassment
Shes still hurt over the fact that u guys arent together. Tell her its been 2 yrs and to get over it.





Brush it off. If these people know u or what to get to know u, the will take that chance themselfs and not listen to other people.
i wouldnt bug about it.. tell the girls shes a jealous btch running her mouth about ****. im told im psychotic, an asshole, a liar, and an alcoholic every day but i know im not. i blow it off.
u do nothing. u take the high road and leave it alone. Don't even pay her any attention. Her opinion doesn't matter. Show people that she is wrong, don't even talk about her in any way!!!!
She's obviously really cut up about not going out with you, but what she's doing is really mean! I'd speak to her face to face and just ask her whats up.
Ignore, ignore, ignore.
Just tell that you moved on and she should do the same.


If those people are really your friends theyre not going to talk what shes saying seriously anyways.
shes a **** she has know life! she is miserable and a woman at that! she wants to ruin your life cus she has no life of hers to ruin!
tell her to shut her mouth and stop talkin sh*t and tell her shes immature.
Tell them all she's a slut and you've heard she's now got syphilis
jus be urself


if they call u names be like


my ex lied to u


dont believe me


thaen *** u ***** ****


**** i dunno man





just tel em the truth f they askl
just ignore her. shes probably telling other girls not to get with u cause she probably wants to get back with u
tell her its her your life so stay out of it and also say u went with me so i cant be that bad right
Ignore it, and move forward in life....
um call her a slut or a whore or even BLACKMAIL
I agree with the syphillis answer. She's a ***** Fight back!
tell everyone you wouldn't let her turn tricks






write her name and number on mens bath room walls
well aparently u pissed her off and hurt her id do the same thing